marry the person whose flaws you can accept the most..

it's been a long time since i've been teased so much abt a guy...

but the funny thing is... i don't really know him well... and the only interaction we have is thru the phone on the occasions when he can't find the help he needs.. lol...

maybe having some distance between friends is a good thing..

but why do i feel so alone?

~醉后决定爱上你~


有人说，爱一个人不是因为他是谁，而是在他的面前你可以是谁，即使不小心暴露了，自己不美好的一面，他还是可以无条件接受，这就是真爱。

只要有运动家的精神，就算你知道自己不会是第一名，还是会全力冲刺不放弃，因为不到最后你怎么会知道结果是什么呢。

一个只能活在过去的人，是永远到不了未来的。

原来很多事情不是看不见，而是我只选择我想看见的。

有人争夺就有人失去。

你以为只有受伤的人才会痛吗？那伤人的那一个呢？她连喊痛的资格都没有。

人生没有走投无路的时候，也没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情。

下次看到你喜欢的人，仔细盯着她的眼睛，因为在她的眼里，你会看到真正的自己。那里，就是属于你最好的位置。

我们又不可能讨好所有的人，所以只要能好好的为自己所爱的人活着，这一辈子也值得啦。

thou shall not get involved in other ppl's biz...

time to keep my mouth shut about alot of things.. maybe alot of things are only meant to be blogged and not said..

A FATHER'S RULES FOR FINDING FULFILLMENT - Paul

Be courteous, be punctual, always say please and thank you, and be sure to hold your knife and fork properly. Others take their cue on how to treat you from your manners.

Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.

Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. I always thought it important to be able to look at myself in the shaving mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. I depart this world with a pretty clear conscience.

Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.

Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.

Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.

Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.

Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.

Give to charity and help those who are less fortunate than yourselves: it’s easy and so rewarding.

Always look on the upside! The glass is half full, never half empty. Every adversity has a silver lining if you seek it out.

Make it your instinct always to say ‘yes’. Look for reasons to do something, not reasons to say no. Your friends will cherish you for that.

Be canny: you will get more of what you want if you can give someone more of what they desire. Compromise can be king.

Always accept a party invitation. You may not want to go, but they want you there. Show them courtesy and respect.

Never ever let a friend down. I would bury bodies for my friends, if they asked me to . . . which is why I have chosen them carefully.

Always tip for good service. It shows respect. But never reward poor service. Poor service is insulting.

Always treat those you meet as your social equal, whether they are above or below your station in life. For those above you, show due deference, but don’t be a sycophant.

Always respect age, as age equals wisdom.

Be prepared to put the interests of your sibling first.

Be proud of who you are and where you come from, but open your mind to other cultures and languages. When you begin to travel (as I hope you will), you’ll learn that your place in the world is both vital and insignificant. Don’t get too big for your breeches.

Be ambitious, but not nakedly so. Be prepared to back your assertions with craftsmanship and hard work.

Live every day to its full: do something that makes you smile or laugh, and avoid procrastination.

Give of your best at school. Some teachers forget that pupils need incentives. So if your teacher doesn’t give you one, devise your own.

Always pay the most you can afford. Never skimp on hotels, clothing, shoes, make-up or jewellery. But always look for a deal. You get what you pay for.

Never give up! My two little soldiers have no dad, but you are brave, big-hearted, fit and strong. You are also loved by an immensely kind and supportive team of family and friends. You make your own good fortune, my children, so battle on.

Never feel sorry for yourself, or at least don’t do it for long. Crying doesn’t make things better.
Look after your body and it will look after you.

Learn a language, or at least try. Never engage a person abroad in conversation without first greeting them in their own language; by all means ask if they speak English!

And finally, cherish your mother, and take very good care of her.

too many wrong don't make a right.. sigh..

feel stupid making stupid mistakes..

maybe i'll end up being the fastest person to be demoted after a promotion..