Totally sums up my thots when I met my friend the other day.
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Thursday, September 27, 2012
Brennan: i went to see Sweets
Booth: y?
Brennan: bcos something is wrong with me
Booth: Bones, nothing is wrong with you
Brennan: no, i thot today when we apologise to each other that everything was fine
Booth: bcos we were being polite
Brennan: yes, we were polite but you still knew that everything wasn't fine
Booth: i was ah.. hoping that it would be.. you know, in the future
Brennan: but only if we admit that it isn't fine right now. Sweets said that i am subconsciously rebeling against the fact that my happiness is now contingent upon your happiness and christine's.
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sorry for the spoiler!
but i totally understood "only if we admit that it isn't fine right now"!
Booth: y?
Brennan: bcos something is wrong with me
Booth: Bones, nothing is wrong with you
Brennan: no, i thot today when we apologise to each other that everything was fine
Booth: bcos we were being polite
Brennan: yes, we were polite but you still knew that everything wasn't fine
Booth: i was ah.. hoping that it would be.. you know, in the future
Brennan: but only if we admit that it isn't fine right now. Sweets said that i am subconsciously rebeling against the fact that my happiness is now contingent upon your happiness and christine's.
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sorry for the spoiler!
but i totally understood "only if we admit that it isn't fine right now"!
Monday, September 24, 2012
Was catching up with a friend yesterday on our recent experiences over dinner.
She was sharing her encounters of setting up her company, the obstacles she met and the people who aided her along the way.. and something struck me halfway thru our conversation. She has been taking a lot of actions to get her to where she wants to be and regardless how well thot thru or not her plans were, she believed that she could achieve the results that she wants. And even though some of the things that she encountered were unexpected, she manages to find ways to overcome them.
I think that's the difference between a thinker and a doer. It's not like she doesn't think, she does but she prefers actions than inaction after thot. And that is something I need to learn. My bro is right, I have a lot of thots in my head but they will just be thots if I don't do anything about them. I'm not a risk taker by nature and though I have learnt to be a calculated risk taker thruout the years, I still need to take more actions and with more urgency. I'm too contented and laid back. I need to change my mindset and find my drive. Time to step up my learning curve and my actions.
She was sharing her encounters of setting up her company, the obstacles she met and the people who aided her along the way.. and something struck me halfway thru our conversation. She has been taking a lot of actions to get her to where she wants to be and regardless how well thot thru or not her plans were, she believed that she could achieve the results that she wants. And even though some of the things that she encountered were unexpected, she manages to find ways to overcome them.
I think that's the difference between a thinker and a doer. It's not like she doesn't think, she does but she prefers actions than inaction after thot. And that is something I need to learn. My bro is right, I have a lot of thots in my head but they will just be thots if I don't do anything about them. I'm not a risk taker by nature and though I have learnt to be a calculated risk taker thruout the years, I still need to take more actions and with more urgency. I'm too contented and laid back. I need to change my mindset and find my drive. Time to step up my learning curve and my actions.
Dating Mistakes ‘Nice’ Guys Often Make
Truth be told, most women feel a little strange going out with nice guys because they tend to appear too nice for their own good. The lack of apparent flaws makes them seem fake. These men play their games so safely that they forget to include a little danger or excitement that women so adore. In their desire to come across as nice, they often end up being too polite. Women are perceptive enough to catch such pretentions. Knowing that you’re pretending to be nice makes them wary of dating you anymore. Rather than trying to make an impression, nice guys should work on being desirable instead, to be able to keep their partner’s attention cemented.________________________________
the above is a partial article from mensxp.com.
i thot that i was the only one who felt so, but apparently it's common. reading this article solved a question that has been at the back of my mind all these while.