Dating Mistakes ‘Nice’ Guys Often Make

 Truth be told, most women feel a little strange going out with nice guys because they tend to appear too nice for their own good. The lack of apparent flaws makes them seem fake. These men play their games so safely that they forget to include a little danger or excitement that women so adore. In their desire to come across as nice, they often end up being too polite. Women are perceptive enough to catch such pretentions. Knowing that you’re pretending to be nice makes them wary of dating you anymore. Rather than trying to make an impression, nice guys should work on being desirable instead, to be able to keep their partner’s attention cemented.
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the above is a partial article from mensxp.com.

i thot that i was the only one who felt so, but apparently it's common. reading this article solved a question that has been at the back of my mind all these while.