When the person you are with makes no grave mistakes, does it make you wrong to decide to leave this person?

Is it a selfish and immature decision to end it?

If two people no longer enjoy the company of the other or if one feels so, if one loses oneself to fulfill the other and gets no satisfaction or happiness, if one knows that there is something that will always be a problem between the two of you, a wedge so huge due to the disparity of value and principle, should one just merely remain to be with the other person just cos they did no real wrong?

I seriously don't agree. I know sometimes I see gray as black or white and I might be too quick to cut ppl out of my life but I do not think that ppl should remain together just becos gg separate ways with this person will make us look bad. Becos they technically did no wrong so that makes us the bad person and make us feel guilty for making that choice.

I believe there is something such as overstaying in other ppl 's life. Ppl come into our lives to give us an experience. Usually they add value or let us learn a lesson. But when they overstay, they stunt our growth. I see a lot of ppl stuck in the diff stages of their lifes.. sometimes it's cos they are unwilling to let go of the past.. sometimes it's cos the ppl they mix with are unwilling to let go of theirs..

So I believe in letting the person go to experience more things in their lifes without me. Staying together will just be overstaying. But having said that, it does not mean that I don't work hard to maintain my relationships with ppl. Just that I don't feel so.... attached.. sometimes I may want to.. but usually it's more of a want than a need.

For all you know, my logic may be faulty. But this is what I've concluded so far.