ARGHH!!!!!! so irritated... i seriously cannot understand what goes thru my father's head..

my father's decree: i have to go down to my grandma's to help take care of her everyday unless i have things to do..

firstly.. my grandma don't need help.. not much, at least.. she is not an invalid... i don't have to feed her, don't have to hold on to her to make sure she can move from one place to another..

secondly.. even if there are things to do like mop floor or wat.. they don't let me do it!! my aunt won't allow me to help.. my grandma will take the task from me and do..

lastly.. how is it TAKING CARE of my grandma when my mere presence will make her want to find food for me to eat, bring things for me to drink and come in to the room to check if i'm ok???!!!!!

even if i insist on helping around the house, i'm denied of it... even when i tell my grandma i don't want anything, she will still bring me things... her want to take care of me is so great that i can't do anything to help...

can't my thick skulled father understand this??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


AAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!