don't think it's possible..

firstly.. i won't go and like wat my friend likes.. i don't advocate that everyone be diff.. similar is fine.. same is not very good.. that's why i hate shopping.. i always don't feel so happy to see someone wearing/carrying the same things as me.. no matter the person is prettier or not.. don't like clashing with ppl.. complex..

secondly.. i am a not a very proactive person.. i rather things fall into my lap rather than chasing after wat i want.. maybe i'm lazy.. maybe i too thinned skinned.. don't like to ask for wat i want.. if it comes it comes.. if i'm not meant to have it then i will not get it lar.. so.. in my mind.. nothing such as fighting for the things i want.. wanting and needing is diff.. i'll do things when it is needed.. but want is just something additional.. something that if i have, would be nice kind of thing.. so to me.. i'm pretty fine with having just wat i need.. and having wat i want is a bonus..

and hor.. not up to me lor.. not like i want will have.. sometimes things in life don't go the way we want them to go.. and wat we think we may want now may not be wat we need.. and wat we need may not be wat others need.. ppl want diff things.. not easy to even find two ppl who might want the same thing..



to clarify to SOME ppl.. perception does not equate to reality..